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Confident, Happy Children

In the Press and What Others are Saying

Download these pdf files to see Sky High Confidence's work with children reported in the media.

■  Teen Now Magazine: "I won't let my muggers beat me" (661kb)

■  Confident, happy and successful children (328kb)

■  Schoolgirl singer/songwriter coached from fear to confidence (929kb)

Plus, here are comments from other clients - children, parents and adults.

Happiness and Confidence in 7 Year Old
"It has been a little over two months since we met with you and I wanted to give you an update on where we are at.

Since meeting with you Jacob is a different child. He is happy and confident – and when he isn't sure about something he asks for or agrees to use the techniques you taught us. He went into Year 3 the day after meeting with you and it has by far been his most successful school year to date. He has been the class leader in learning his multiplication tables, after having a lot of difficulty in maths in Year 2, and routinely gets a perfect score in his bi-weekly maths tests. Jacob is relaxed, confident and happy. He has joined teams in rugby and hockey and has gone from strength to strength – and what would have in the past been full of apprehension and avoidance he has tackled head on.

Jacob has a new "can do" attitude and is having a great time in everything he does! Many thanks."
Susie Church, Mother of Jacob, Age 7

Big Turnaround for 10 Year Old Boy
"Dear KEVIN
Since our meetings I have become more confident and I stand up to the bullies at school. One of them has even now become my friend. Im doing very well with my work at school and preparing for my 11+ for next year. My mum shouts a lot less at me.The technique really helped me and I felt calm and relaxed when I did it.

To all those people who will go to Kevin, I'm confident he will help you. Thank you Kevin! you were a great help not just to me but to my mum too. THANK YOU!!!."
Omar, Age 10

"Dear Kevin

I first contacted you as I had some concerns about my son's confidence and the effect this had on his school work and getting on in general with his peers. I'm pleased to say that both his teachers and myself have seen a significant change in Omar's attitude and approach to challenges. My son got a lot out of the sessions. He was able to express his feelings, understand that he is not always at fault and does not have to be perfect.

My son is a much happier child who despite many challenges in his life no longer blames himself for every little thing. This was achieved with your help. My son and I found the exercises very helpful and have used them together to address some unresolved issues.

I do really appreciate your help with my son and I hope his confidence will go stronger and stronger.

Many thanks,"
Mina, Omar's Mum

Transformation for a 15 Year Old Girl
"Before I spoke with Kevin I felt insecure about the way I looked and had a very low self esteem. However, since working with an experienced confidence coach I feel transformed.

My main objective was to become a more confident person and say and do what I wanted rather than always holding back. Kevin showed me how to address my fears and problems by advising me on several helpful techniques and making me think more positively when I was faced with a situation that I found emotionally challenging. For instance, before I met Kevin I hated putting my hand up in class, it scared me and, as a result, I would hardly participate as I was constantly hesitant and preoccupied with what others might think of me. Kevin showed me the source of this fear, that I was scared of being the centre of attention and because I thought negatively of my personality and appearance I did not want to draw attention to myself. Now I am able to conquer most things that I probably would have never done without Kevin; he has even helped with my fear of spiders! Not only have I noticed a difference in myself but so have the people around me. Nowadays, I feel so much happier with both my looks and my character.

Confidence is such a beautiful thing because, once acquired, you have the ability to walk into a room and allow it to radiate off you, reflecting on the people around you. To me, that is one of the loveliest feelings there could ever be and I hope that it stays with me forever.
Thank you Kevin☺"
Caitlin O'Connell, Age 15

Huge Leaps for 10 Year Old Boy
"I thought I'd give you an update on Daniel's progress since you saw him just over a year ago.

As you probably remember Daniel was very resistant to receiving help. However, last year his progress was remarkable. He formed new friendships, and (without any prompting by us) took part in, and thoroughly enjoyed, extra-curricular music and drama. He continues to play tennis (which he had started a few months before his consultation) and has begun to compete in junior tournaments. He had an excellent year academically and impressed his teachers with his positive attitude. He has just started secondary school and seems to be settling in well. Regards, Carolyn"
Carolyn Peterson, Mother of Daniel, Age 10

From the Father of a 16 Year Old Girl
"Dear Kevin

I am sending you this testimonial because I feel compelled to, and indeed honour bound to.

When I contacted you I was as very worried about my sixteen year old daughter and her lack of confidence and ability to make friends. You will remember I was also a little sceptical as to whether you would be able to achieve anything.

Well here I am just a few short months later and I am writing to thank you for the most profound change. To say that this change has turned my daughter’s life around would not be an over statement.

By way of background to anyone that may read this, my daughter Eleanor is the product of a top girls school and approx. £120k of school fees so far. But she was terribly lacking in confidence. I contacted Kevin when she ended up in tears after a Young Farmers event when she felt unable to take part in a group game due to nerves. All of the investment in her education was in effect wasted as she did not have the basic skills to cope with life.

I don’t know what Kevin has done. Eleanor will not discuss what skills she has learned from him. But I do know it is magical. From the time she came back from her first session, the difference has been simply staggering.

From having no real friends she now has a circle of many, and it is expanding all the time. She recently felt able to apply for a little job and got the job at interview. In this job she models clothes in a top up-market store and serves customers. In the pre-Christmas run-up she was the top sales person in her department – selling £15k worth of jumpers in one 6 hour shift. Before working with Kevin she would have been nervous to have even purchased a jumper from the store in question.

How would I sum up what Kevin does?

Simple. Kevin changes lives.

Not just the person that is trained, but by osmosis the lives of others around that person.

The best money I have ever spent on my daughter has been spent with Kevin. Definitely. I only wish I had found Kevin years ago.

To anyone that is reading this wondering if they should take the “risk” then I would simply say “do it”. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. When I look at my daughter now I am often reminded of a phrase that Kevin used in an email to me when I first contacted him. In it he spoke of hoping to achieve a “happy and confident Eleanor”. That is exactly what he helped to create.

So that’s it. To conclude I can really only say THANK YOU KEVIN. I owe you big time.

Best regards

Mark Sear

PS. Incidentally if you are a reader of this open testimonial thinking that Kevin or a business associate of his his wrote this, then I can assure you that is not the case. I have given Kevin my personal mobile number, and you are welcome to call me.”
Mark Sear, Father of Eleanor, Age 16

Confidence with Friends and Trying New Things
"I brought Haris (age 9) to you because I was at the end of my tether with worry. He was desperately unhappy at school, scared to try new things, and couldn't get along with any of the kids in his class.

Since he saw you all that has changed. Now he is popular with the other kids and I often see them waiting for him at the school gate to walk into school together. His school work has improved and he's far happier in himself. He recently put himself forward as a Road Safety Officer at school and had to speak on stage in assembly. Afterwards the Headteacher came to me with this huge grin on her face, saying how much he has changed, how proud she is of him, how confidently he comes across now, and how good he is with the other kids.

You have turned my son's life around for him and I am very, very grateful for that. Plus it was obvious to me that for you it wasn't about the money - you really wanted to help Haris. It was worth every penny and I am very lucky that I found you.”
Alesha Khan, Mother of Haris, Age 9

Transformation in Academic Achievement and in Friendships
"Dear Kevin

I've waited till now to give my feedback to the work you did with Bimal as I wanted some tangible results to share with you and make observations over time that were measurable and progressive and not merely subjective. So here goes... approximately 6 months after the last session which was mind changing for all of us, the changes and shifts in Bimal's behaviour have been very noticeable and positive, I am pleased to say he is becoming a far more confident person and proud of his school work - his end of year 10 results were truly fantastic, achieving 3 A* and an A in his weakest subjects (sciences) and 92% in maths which he had previously given-up on. On a social front, his level of interaction with adults has improved and seems far more comfortable in the company of friends and family.

We are extremely happy and proud with the progress he has made and thanks to you, he is now realising the potential we know he has."
Atma, Father of Bimal, Age 15

Far, Far Happier at School
"Kevin has helped me to be able to continue through to a new school without worry and complete numerous tests without thinking about the results being bad. I feel that if I would have not met Kevin I would have struggled through the rest of my school years. I’m glad I met Kevin."
Sam, Age 13

"My son Sam was struggling to cope with his daily life. We would spend time every night discussing his ‘worries’, he was putting pressure on himself to achieve success in school, he had problems with friendships and sports. His confidence and self-esteem was very low and I was becoming concerned as he grew increasingly anxious. Although I tried to help him I knew he really needed to speak to someone else. I tried speaking to our Doctor and getting some advice but this wasn’t enough.

I contacted Kevin and after our initial appointment I felt relieved, I could see Sam didn’t seem as anxious. Sam looked forward to his appointments with Kevin, he didn’t discuss them with me but he didn’t have to as he always came away with a smile. It has been reassuring knowing Kevin has been there, he has had an enormous affect on Sam. I know he will miss his appointments.

Sam is a different child he has a more positive attitude his confidence and self-esteem has increased greatly. Although I know he will have his ups and downs I feel reassured he has the ability to cope with whatever comes his way.

I would certainly recommend Kevin, as he has had a positive effect on both myself and Sam. I will always be grateful for his advice and guidance but most of all for making my son happy again."
Karen Wilkinson, Learning Support Assistant and Sam's Mum

Confidence and Friendship at School
"Since our sessions started I am a lot more popular at school, everyone is friendlier to me and I am a lot more confident and relaxed. It's really great."
Toby, Age 12

"Thank you for everything over the last few months. Toby is now much calmer and happier and by giving him the tools to deal with various feelings and situations he is much more in control. I would also like to say how very much Toby enjoyed his sessions with you, he really looked forward to them and returned from them so buoyed."
Joanna, Mother of Toby

Post Traumatic Recovery
"It’s amazing. After I was mugged in Spain, when I came home to the UK I was afraid to even walk down the street on my own, even in broad daylight. I’d think people were following me, and I'd sometimes get this panicky feeling and just want to run for no reason. Now, after the coaching, I’ve just been back to Spain and walked down the very road where the attack happened, on my own, and felt absolutely fine, completely relaxed, no problem at all!"
Elle Williams, School Student & Singer/Songwriter, Hiflyer

Peak Performance in Sports
"Since working with Sky High Confidence I have experienced greater levels of confidence and clarity than I previously knew existed. This has had a big positive impact on how I feel and on how I perform. Before a game I am now relaxed and can easily focus solely on the positives of my own ability, which means I go onto the pitch feeling 100% ready. As a direct result of this and other things Kevin has done, I am clearer and more proactive during the game, which has enhanced my ability to anticipate and to make things happen. For me, this is the key to performing at my peak. I am happy to recommend Kevin to anyone, except perhaps my opponents!"
David Flatman, Rugby Union International, Bath and England

Personal Happiness
"Despite my outward financial and career success, l came to you because I still felt fear at a certain level, like something was missing on the inside, and that somehow as a person I was not quite good enough. I am delighted to say that as a result of what we did certain negative thoughts, feelings and states of mind that I used to live with regularly – habitually even – have now simply gone. And they have not come back! I do not have those negative feelings any more.

Instead I am able to handle and transcend challenges which previously were huge hurdles for me. I am stronger and more resourceful in high pressure situations. I am more tolerant, and at the same time less affected by the opinions and prejudices of others. I am a happier person, more relaxed, and even my attitudes and beliefs about money and my personal wealth have changed for the better. If someone wants to be more successful AND feel clearer and better on the inside, I recommend they contact you.”
Grant Morrison, Investment Analyst, Goldman Sachs

Feeling Fully Alive
"Hi Kevin,

Firstly I would like to thank you once again for guiding me to letting myself know "WHO I TRULY AM". It is with no doubt that the power of your teachings are effective once I allowed myself to be open to it. I was always in a state of sleepwalk. Not being fully 'AWARE' of my surroundings, even to the effect that it felt like I did not feel any pain. Years would pass by and I would think of small incidents that happened in my life and beat myself up for it. I used to wake up every morning not wanting to do anything, not feeling comfortable in my own skin.

Now I cant wait to get up and enjoy what life has to offer. It seemed as if I went through life with a not so clear pair of shades on and after seeing you its like my vision is in HIGH DEFINITION quality. My focus and goals in life are extremely clear, my calmness is way beyond what I could ever imagine and my appreciation for life is absolutely PHENOMENAL. I can now truly experience the quote: 'Life is what you make of it.' I would recommend anyone to Kevin who feels the need of a joyful and fulfilling life."
Fawaaz Jones, Student

Social and Business Confidence
"I worked my way up from the shop floor age 18, to become Managing Director of the group 4 years ago. During this time I noticed that as I moved higher in my career, my confidence got lower, and in my 30’s I actually had a few panic attacks in business meetings and started to dread board meetings and customer visits and meals out with clients. This also affected my private life as I dreaded social gatherings and weddings and would basically just not go to these events.At work as MD I got around the problem by sending managers to the meetings, but this year I decided to do something about it and booked in to see Kevin.

Since then I have attended meetings with no problem whatsoever, I’ve also been out to a few lunches and have enjoyed the experience, and socially I am doing things I would never have done before – and I’m doing them easily.

I’d previously tried a course of hypnotherapy and other treatments, and none of them had made any difference. I would recommend anyone in a similar situation to do what I’ve done. I let it run my life for years and wish I’d done something sooner. I’m now looking forward to pushing my business hard and enjoying it instead of dreading it.”
John Richards, Managing Director

From Worn Down to Self Assured
"During my review in work, I was discussing my performance with my boss and the fact that I didn’t feel I was contributing or delivering enough. The previous few years I had been through a divorce and lots of change, stress and pressure at work and although things had turned a corner, I was basically feeling worn down and worn out. I suggested that maybe I could do with some confidence coaching and to my surprise and delight my boss agreed.

Now, after seeing Kevin, I simply am more confident and self assured without having to try or work at it. My boss, colleagues, friends and family have noticed a big difference – in fact many close friends and family have said they are pleased to ‘have the real Sally back’.

I’d happily recommend Kevin to anyone feeling challenged, mentally exhausted and unable to find a way through. It was a pleasure to work with him and the experience has genuinely enhanced my quality of life."
Sally Allan, Marketing Communications Manager, Regional Building Society

Further Update...
"Hi Kevin

I have just completed the paperwork for my half year review and I just want to say another really big ‘thank you’! Almost a year on from the coaching, the transformation in the way I think, behave and ultimately present myself is amazing – what shines through is a confidence in my ability and enthusiasm for my work that just wasn’t there a year ago.

What I find equally surprising is that this hasn’t been horribly hard work! It’s the result of a gradual and ongoing shift in my perspective, and although I came to you primarily concerned about work, I also feel happier and more positive about my life and relationships outside work as well.

Thank you again for support and guidance – I greatly appreciate and value the work that you do.

All the best,

Sally"

Feeling Whole Inside
"Before we started I felt that I had been living a lie, like there was nothing inside, no person there. I was confident on the outside, but it all felt like a façade. Even all my achievements could not make me feel enough on the inside. We spent two hours together and as a result of that, combined with the short routines you gave me to do at home, I now feel whole, real on the inside and very comfortable with the true me. I am happier, more confident and thriving now, plus my relationship with my wife has improved enormously too as a direct result of our work. All in all this has matched my hopes and exceeded my expectations. Many thanks Kevin”
MF, International Training Consultant

Life Changing Confidence
"Before seeing Kevin, I had little confidence generally and quite low self esteem. Many people said they thought I was confident, but it was all a façade. Inside, I was like the proverbial swan - swimming serenely on the surface, no worries - but with feet paddling madly in circles under the water and panicking! I had even been prescribed Prozac, which helped a little but was never going to be a lasting solution.

I wanted to be able to not worry what people thought of me or feel judged, either for my actions, what clothes I wore or in fact any life choices I made. To be able to stand up and make a statement or deal with a situation and not feel worried for days afterwards.

Now, through seeing Kevin I feel I have grown and truly become the person I wanted to be, totally happy with myself, having the confidence to speak out and no longer made to 'feel' anything I don't want to. The exercises and processes he has walked me through have given me the abilities to deal with even the most challenging of situations. All this has naturally made a great difference to my life, in all sorts of wonderful ways.”
Terina Worrall, Dental Practice Manager

Further update...
"Hi Kevin, Just to keep you updated 18 months on. Can't believe it was that long ago! Anyway bit of feedback - life going well generally, positive attitude at work, good results, I am feeling so much better. Comments received from both people I do know and also those I have never met before! Such as how confident and strong I seem to them! (some men I notice really like this!!!) I feel so much more in control of my life in every way possible and have to say Thanks Kevin - it's onwards and upwards! I am looking forward to this year! Regards, Terina”

Breaking Through Limitations
"Before seeing Kevin I felt I had exhausted most self-discovery avenues, and felt that my struggles and confidence problems were with me to stay! Gladly, I took the bold leap of faith in trying something different! I am not great at opening up to strangers and it takes time for me to build trust. Kevin made the experience feel ‘down to earth’ as we discussed my concerns very openly and light heartedly – with a few challenges along the way! Within 30 mins of the first session I had a breakthrough moment, discovering that I was more limited than I could have ever thought possible. The simple tool that Kevin introduced to me, and I hasten to add I challenged him on, eventually became logical. I realised that by looking at situations differently and challenging my thought processes, I began to feel empowered. I was able to manage my inner voice better, tell it to be quiet and I get on with what I wanted to accomplish. I feel I am on a journey to returning to the true person I used to be with less inhibitions, more energy, interest and passion. I, myself am on the path of becoming a Coach and found this beneficial to assist me in my journey. Thank you Kevin – definitely worthwhile!"
Kathy Ellis, Communications Manager, National Restaurant Chain

From Downward Spiral to Ever-Upward Spiral
“I came to the coaching feeling extremely low, seeing an uncertain future, and stuck in a downward spiral of negative thinking and under-performance. But thanks to Kevin, all that changed in just a few short weeks. The simple but extremely powerful tools which he has given me mean I feel good about myself, I believe in myself, and I stay that way even when the pressure is on. It’s like I’m listening to a different soundtrack, and it’s playing automatically – so I feel good without even thinking about it!

As a direct consequence, I now take things in my stride where before I would have crumpled. I have given briefings to senior business and government figures, and done so with confidence and ease. I have upped my game at work – and my level of enjoyment – in all manner of ways. And I have just won a scholarship for my forthcoming MBA programme. None of this would have happened if I’d carried on the way I was going. Now the future is compelling and attractive.

In my view, the things Kevin does enable you to achieve exponential results, in an extremely short space of time. Sometimes in life you make the right decision, and I’m so glad, when I look back now to the time when I was weighing up whether to do this or not, that I did make the right decision, to take this step forward.”
Chris Sutherland, Head of Marketing

Public Speaking Confidence
"The presentation (to 100 people) went absolutely fantastically. Many people said afterwards that mine was the best of the conference, both to my face and on the feedback sheets. I felt good, I made eye contact, and it was as if the real me was talking to them. As you know I had been extremely anxious about it before our session, so it's really quite astonishing how well it actually went!"
Rachel Roberts, Manager

From Reserved to Outgoing
"I came to you because I felt that there were areas in my life that needed a bit of a lift. That I needed more confidence in areas that I wanted to excel and just be myself. I was browsing on web and came across your website and felt that it might be just the thing I need. Your website gave me examples in areas that I could improve. After e-mailing and chatting to you; I felt that I was going to give this a go.
 
During our sessions I noticed that things that I felt were weighing me down in my life suddenly had a different value and view. I now look at things in a different way and feel really good about who I am. I used to be reserved and now I am a lot more out-going.

I would gladly recommend Kevin Burch to other people who think that they need a boost in their confidence and other areas in their life.”
Robert Scarlett, Electrical Engineer

Confidence at Interview
"Thanks to the things you did I was calm in the run up to the interview, and I felt relaxed and in control throughout the actual event, even when the tough questions came. The best feeling was walking out afterwards and knowing that I had done myself justice and had indeed said all the things that I'd actually wanted and planned to say. And yes, I got the job!"
John Marshall, Solicitor

Lifelong Self-Esteem, Confidence and Relief from Back Pain
"Before I came to you I’d spent much of my life wearing a mask, feeling nervous and living in fear. I worried about the smallest things, let everyone else dump their stuff onto me and was even anxious about getting the bus into town or going to see friends on the train.

"Now, just one month later, I feel transformed. I’m standing up for myself at work and with my family. I’m travelling around and enjoying it. I have a wonderful amount of energy now, combined with a real inner calmness. I get up feeling so happy, and these days every morning is a good one. I feel strong and confident, terrific and whole, as if the confident person who’s been trapped inside crying to be noticed for so long, has now been freed.

"On top of all that, for years I had held so much tension in my back that it would spasm and I'd spend days in bed taking pain killers. But now that I've changed how I feel inside, my back problems have completely disappeared! To feel this good in such a short time is truly remarkable."
ST, Parent

Smoking and Pain of Loss
"I came to you to stop smoking and yes, I've done that successfully. But the best thing is that I’ve also got so much more out of seeing you. I’d had counselling years ago after a traumatic event but it hadn’t made any difference, and I’d been stuck in the same place ever since. You have helped me let go of the grief I’d carried all that time, and now my approach to life has changed. I’ve left behind a weight of things which are outside of my control and am facing forward and feeling positive, lighter and happier. I’m still me, just more sure of myself. Plus my asthma has improved as an extra added bonus! I’m very happy that I suspended my scepticism and disbelief and went to you, and I’m amazed at how easy all this has been. I’ve been recommending you to everyone. Many, many thanks."
Tabitha Stewart, Nurse

Phobia of Heights
"You were brilliant. I'd tried before to get rid of my phobia of falling from heights, and it had just made it worse! But your confidence and caring meant I knew straight away that this would be different. And sure enough, in less than an hour my phobia of over 20 years was gone completely. I used to feel sick at even the thought of going near high edges, and now two weeks on I can lean out from balcony railings and feel absolutely fine. I've even been day-dreaming of bungee-jumping, which is a thought I would never have had before! Thank you."
Jane Kitchen, Executive Coach
 

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